Desire and intimacy
How to talk about what you want, what to do when you want different things, and gentle ways to start.
The yes, no, maybe list for couples: 41 gentle ideas to print
A gentle yes, no, maybe list for couples: 41 ideas from mild to warm that you each mark on your own, then compare. Fill it in here or print it.
Mismatched libido: when one of you wants more, and what actually helps
When one of you wants sex more often: why it's so common, the two kinds of desire, what research says couples who handle it well do, and when to get help.
How to talk to your partner about what you want in bed
A practical, low-pressure guide to talking with your partner about desires: when to bring it up, what to say, and how to make it easier for both of you.
Try it with your partner
La Brasa is a private app for couples: rate ideas on your own, see only what you both want, answer a daily question and play games for two. Free on Google Play.