How you feel loved

Kind words

What’s said really matters.

Hearing that you’re appreciated, admired or missed lands deeply with you. A sincere compliment or a short message can carry you through a whole day. Tip: say out loud what you’d like to hear; people who care about you often just don’t know.

One thing to try this week

Tonight, each of you says three specific things you appreciated about the other this week. Specific beats grand.

Compare in La Brasa

The same quiz is in La Brasa. Take it there and share your result with your partner: once they share theirs, you'll see both side by side.

The other ways: Time together · Physical affection · Thoughtful gestures · Help with everyday things.

Our own short quiz, inspired by Gary Chapman's love languages. Not the official assessment.