How you feel loved

Thoughtful gestures

It’s the thought that counts.

Little surprises show you that someone had you in mind: your favourite snack, a note, something saved because it reminded them of you. The price never matters; the attention does. Tip: share the small things you love, so they’re easier to notice.

One thing to try this week

Each write a short list of small things you love (a snack, a song, a flower) and swap lists.

Compare in La Brasa

The same quiz is in La Brasa. Take it there and share your result with your partner: once they share theirs, you'll see both side by side.

The other ways: Kind words · Time together · Physical affection · Help with everyday things.

Our own short quiz, inspired by Gary Chapman's love languages. Not the official assessment.