How you feel loved

Time together

Being there is the gift.

Full, undivided attention is what shows you that someone cares: a walk, a long dinner, phones away. It’s less about what you do and more about being fully there. Tip: protect small, regular moments rather than waiting for a big occasion.

One thing to try this week

Find twenty minutes this week with both phones in another room. A walk counts, and so does a slow breakfast.

Compare in La Brasa

The same quiz is in La Brasa. Take it there and share your result with your partner: once they share theirs, you'll see both side by side.

The other ways: Kind words · Physical affection · Thoughtful gestures · Help with everyday things.

Our own short quiz, inspired by Gary Chapman's love languages. Not the official assessment.